Showing posts with label gospel. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gospel. Show all posts

Tuesday, 6 October 2015

Christian, are you ready for Halloween?


Rise of Halloween:
Halloween is a challenging topic of discussion among Christians today.  Christian views range from seeing it as harmless fun or as occultist paganism growing at an alarming rate.  Some people see it as an opportunity for ministry, others as something best avoided at all cost.  Whatever your view, it’s growing popularity is undeniable.  Here in the UK the trick-or-treat phenomenon is growing fast.  New research in the UK suggests that up to 70% of under 25’s now celebrate it in some way!

To Halloween or not to Halloween?
So what are we to make of it as Christians?  The Bible clearly tells us to “cast off the works of darkness and put on the armour of light!” and to “Abhor what is evil and hold fast to what is good!” But it also says “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good!”

The Christian debate also involves different narratives of how Halloween began.  Some say it was started by Pagans to worship evil spirits.  Others suggest that it began as a Christian festival about overcoming death.  To be honest, I do not know which it is, and personally, I don’t think it matters all that much.

You may be surprised by which Christians fall on what side of the debate as well.  I remember watching an “Ask Pastor John” video where John Piper had no problems with kids taking part in Halloween.  And as many of you know our loved Pastor Bobby used to be partial to a bit of trick-or-treating himself.  But of course, that doesn’t mean it’s right, though.

For me, I guess I believe that we should not celebrate Halloween.  I just can’t see how it can be right to make light of Satanic evil.  But at the same time, I’m not convinced by the usual alternative Christian responses.  There are four that I have come across:

1. Pretend your not at home and don’t answer the door!
2. Answer the door but make sure the people know you’re a Christian and that they shouldn’t knock next year!
3. Have alternative light parties for our kids and hope we can get a few non-Christian kids out of trick-or-treating.
4. Hand out Gospel tracts along with candy warning against the danger of Halloween.

Are these the only Christian responses possible?  I don’t think so.  I will address some of these directly below and offer my own alternative.

Don’t live in fear of Halloween:
When I was a child, it was obvious that as a Christian family we were supposed to hate Halloween.  But it went even further that that.  In fact, we were scared of it. Every year as a family we would turn off the lights and hide in our back room, dreading every knock at the door.

When the eventual knocks did come, we’d hold our breaths, hoping they would assume we were not at home.  And breathe a sigh of relief as they moved on (perhaps after throwing a few eggs at the door).  Hiding was our Halloween Tradition.  On October the 31st every year we felt “Overcome by Evil”.

But in my more recent years, I began to think, “why should we live in fear of evil?”  We have a mighty Saviour who defeated death, Hell and the Devil at Calvary.  Our Light -Jesus Christ- came into a world of darkness and shone a light so bright that evil fled.  Jesus wasn’t afraid that His light might be dimmed, by mingling with people in the dark.  That’s not how light and darkness work.  Darkness always flees from the light, especially the Light of the World!  As John puts it “The light (Jesus) shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”

As Christians -we more than anyone- don’t need to be afraid of the dark! Halloween can’t hurt us.  Opening the door to trick-or-treaters won’t infect us.  In fact, the Bible tells us that our light, when shown in love, might affect them!

On the other side of the door:
During my time as a London City Missionary, I discovered what it felt like to be on the other side of the door.  I would regularly go door knocking, hoping to chat with people about Jesus.  I realised that you do know when people are in and trying to avoid you and how it feels to be ignored.  I dreaded seeing the “No religious callers” signs too.  Even though I had sympathy for the reasons people had those signs, I still felt rejected.  Did it stop me doing door to door?  No, but it did make me think; “What impression am I making when families knock on my door, and I hide from them?”

Another thing struck me as I thought more about it (while hiding behind my couch one October 31st).  All year round I was knocking on the doors of my neighbours and struggling to engage them in conversation.  But for one night a year they knocked on mine, and I was the one hiding away!  I didn’t want to “celebrate” Halloween, but I didn’t want to waste the opportunity it brings anymore.  And in East London, it was a great opportunity.

See the opportunity:
During my last couple of years of working in East London, we had some amazing Canadian neighbours who loved Halloween. This couple took every opportunity they could to bring the community together.  For them, Halloween was one of those opportunities.  And when I say loved Halloween I mean they loved it!  One year they covered their three-floored house with fake webbing and placed on it a 6ft giant Spider!  The next year they spent three months building a giant flying saucer.  They then attached it to the side of their house to make it look like it crashed.  On Halloween night they opened up their garage to hundreds of children to see an alien autopsy done by Men in Black of the dead pilot!  And the piles of sweets they gave away, you wouldn’t believe!  As you might imagine our street became popular with trick-or-treaters.

So the same year the Aliens invaded our neighbour’s house, I started a new strategy.  I bought loads of sweets and a pile of John’s Gospels to give away.  John’s gospel seemed like the most appropriate Gospel for the occasion with its strong imagery of darkness and light.  On the night we put on a sci-fi movie in our lounge to watch with our kids and left the light on and the curtains open!  And I waited with eager anticipation (instead of fear) for the first knocks.  For the first time, I felt free at Halloween as a Christian!  I was not overcome by the fear of evil.   Instead, I felt I was overcoming evil with good!

And when they came I ran to the door with a great big smile on my face!  We gave sweets to the children and Gospels to the parents.  It wasn’t always easy, but we did it.

Halloween fruit:
I remember one family came to the door the first night we tried it.  The children dressed as witches and ghosts, the dad wasn’t dressed up but was twice as scary!  He had tattoos on his tattoos and had a Staffordshire bull terrier on a lead.  Not the kind of guy you mess with.  I remember thinking, “am I really going to offer him a Gospel?”

I took a big gulp and walked up to him and said: “Hi, I’m from the church down the road and I’d like to give you this.”  He frowned.  Looked at the gospel.  Then he smiled and said “you’re a Christian! Great we just moved into the area, and I’ve thought about finding a church but didn’t know where to start!”  The next Sunday he brought his whole family to our church.  He wasn’t a Christian, but God was obviously at work in his life.

Light parties:
The next year we added yet another dimension.  We decided to hold a light party a week later.  This meant it landed around bonfire night, which works well as a theme for a light party.  And along with the sweets and gospels, we gave out invites to the light party to the kids who were trick-or-treating.  After all weren’t they the kids we are praying would come to a light party?

What I don’t say:
I am always careful never to say “Happy Halloween” and when asked I do try to give my honest answer to how I feel about it. Neither do I feel the need to say that it's all bad.  I just want to give them the gospel with a smile and let Jesus sort it out.

So you don’t need to “celebrate” Halloween or condemn those who do.  You don’t need to say “Happy Halloween.”  Instead, I prefer to say; “It’s so great to meet you, thank you for knocking. Please knock again anytime you like!"

Don’t go against your conscience:
One last thing I want to say.  It is important that you don’t go against your conscience on this issue.  I am not saying you must change your views on Halloween, or that you must open your doors and start giving our sweets, or that I am absolutely right on this issue.  The Bible is clear in Romans 14 that we should each be clear in our minds and that if we doubt we should not do something because anything not done in faith in sin.

What I am saying is whatever you do this Halloween, do it prayerfully, thoughtfully and freed from fear by the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

My prayer is that this Halloween the Devil will be very disappointed.  Because instead of souls falling further into darkness, people will be shown the Light of Christ and be set free!

Isaiah 9:2 “The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of deep darkness a light has dawned.”



Thursday, 18 July 2013

No 1. PASSION for the Gospel (My Organic P’s)



What makes people want to share Jesus with their family, friends, neighbours or work colleges?  There are plenty of things that’ll make people “just do it!”  A challenging sermon on Matthew 28:19 that says “Are you doing enough to tell people about Jesus?!”  The answer to that question will mostly be “No”, followed by guilt, then followed by begrudging and half-hearted attempts at evangelism.  This will eventually fizzle out, if you’re lucky...  And if you’re not lucky you get trapped in evangelism in a  religiosity that breads pride...


But what will make people want to do it?  The answer we see in the biblical Gospel’s is, people experiencing the Gospel personally and powerfully in the everyday.  Let’s look at a couple of my favourite examples one from the Gospel of John and one from Mark.

The ex-demon-possessed man in Mark 5:18-20:
As Jesus was getting onto the boat, the man who had been demon-possessed began to go with him. Jesus did not let him, but said 'Go home to your own people and tell tham how much the Lord has done for you, and how he has had mercy on you.' So the man went away and began to tell in the Decapolis how much Jesus had done for him.  And all the people were amazed.
This guy was saved one minute and sent as the first evangelist the next.  What was his motivation “Tell them how much the Lord has done for you?”.  So a good question to ask ourselves before we try to share the Gospel is “How much has the Lord actually done for me?”  If the answer is not much then, don’t share the Gospel with others yet. Instead spend time looking at it a fresh yourself.  If the answer is “more than I could ever imagine!” then you have something wonderful to share...

Mary at the empty tomb in John 20:15-18:
He asked her, ‘Woman, why are you crying? Who is it you are looking for?’Thinking he was the gardener, she said, ‘Sir, if you have carried him away, tell me where you have put him, and I will get him.’Jesus said to her, ‘Mary.’
She turned towards him and cried out in Aramaic, ‘Rabboni!’ (which means ‘Teacher’).Jesus said, ‘Do not hold on to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father. Go instead to my brothers and tell them, “I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.”’
Mary Magdalene went to the disciples with the news: ‘I have seen the Lord!’ And she told them that he had said these things to her.
Mary becomes the first witness to the risen Christ.  Why?  Because her pain was turned to joy as she heard Jesus call her name personally!” Then you couldn't stop her proclaiming the news that Jesus was risen!

These were two people who were told to go and tell.  But the Gospels are full of people who Jesus healed and told “Don’t tell anyone!”  What did they do... They went and told.  Not because they were simply being disobedient but because they were overflowing with the goodness of God.

Do we marvel at our salvation?  Are we lost in what it cost to set us free from sin and death?  Do we apply the power of the gospel to everyday struggles and besetting sins?  Are we applying it personally and corporately as a church?  In other words; do we believe and see the Gospel working in our lives and the life of the church.  Before we preach the Gospel to others we must first preach it to ourselves every morning and to our struggling brothers and sisters in Christ.

This bubbling over passion has to be the foundation for creating an Evangelizing Church. 

And as a newcomer to CEC I am so pleased to see a family of people with really passion for the message of the cross and the resurrection!  You hear the Gospel of tender, costly grace preached every week from the pulpit, you talk about it at every MAPP Groups and you share it with each other.  As a result outsiders are coming in and hearing this amazing message and coming to faith.

If you are a member of CEC you may be thinking “we’re not that good at it, what are you going on about?”   But please trust me when I say as a church you do have this foundational passion.  Yes it might need to be stirred up more.  And we should never take it for granted or fall into the trap that we've got this base covered.  But let's not go to the other extreme of thinking "we suck" either.  I for one love how you love Jesus!

Let’s continue to rejoice in this wonderful message of Jesus!  Let's pray together we never take it for granted and always grow in awe of the Gospel of grace!

Thursday, 11 July 2013

My 5 Organic P's

What does it look like to be an Evangelising Church?  I have been pondering this question for a while now.  Does it mean to have a solid series of evangelistic events or tent meetings?  Does it mean a church that has a strong door to door ministry? Is it a church that sends a group of members to the High Streets with a handful of tracts and a few loud voices?  Is it a church that runs annual Christianity Explored courses?  While I think all these can be good methods of Evangelism, I don't believe in themselves they mean a church is fully committed to evangelism.

From experience I know that a good programme can actually be a way of hiding the fact that many members in a church don't actually want to share their faith at all.  A regular gospel event can become someone's excuse to say "Well they do the evangelism for our church..."

In my role as Pastor of Outreach at CEC I don't want to be just developing programmes.  Obviously, it will involve that kind of thing.  But I want it to go much deeper, I want every member of our church to be a part of reaching Chessington for Jesus.  I believe there is a basic foundation that a church needs to be an evangelising church.  A foundation that supports and strengthens programmes that are built on top of them.  It was dubbed recently (by Gareth), "Ben's Organic P's".

So here they are:

1. A PASSION for the Gospel
2. Understanding our PURPOSE in God's mission
3. Building genuine relationships with the PEOPLE around us
4. Devoted to PRAYER for their salvaion
5. Always being PREPARED to share our faith

Over the next few weeks I want to outline each of these five points.  I will try to demonstrate why I believe they are Biblical and share how they may look practically.

I look forward to seeing what you have to add.